Dame Helen “I am a complete believer in legal brothels” Mirren

Tender Loving Care, TLC, is about sex, sexuality, sexual health, sexual health of disabled people, sex lives of disabled people, sexual advice for disabled people, sexual services for disabled people, sex therapy for disabled people, responsible sex workers, training, handicapped, service providers, the responsible sex worker, advice, services, therapy, training, handicapped, responsible service providers
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Connecting disabled men & women to responsible sex workers, therapists, & teachers

Dame Helen “I am a complete believer in legal brothels” Mirren

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Pye Jacobson nominated Sex Worker of the Year and plans to Strip for us
7 January 2010
 Pye Jacobson, the Swedish sex work campaigner has accepted her nomination as Sex Worker of the Year with the Erotic Awa...

Book proves new legislation is based on ignorance, without listening to the people it will effect
24 December 2009
Academic Jo Phoenix has edited a new book "Regulating Sex For Sale: Prostitution Policy Reform in the UK, published by P...

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Welcome to the TLC Trust

Welcome to what has been described as one of the most exciting developments in recent social history. TLC means, yes, Tender Loving Care, and that is what the TLC Trust is all about: helping professional sex workers and other service providers cater to the needs of the sexually dispossessed. 

Two stigmatized groups provide each other with triumph: sexually-deprived disabled people get laid, and sex workers gain a renewed pride in their work.

Marginalized by the government, by the Home Office, and by feminists and religious fundamentalists, sex workers not only bring joy into the world, but also rescue disabled people from personal anguish, sexual purgatory, and touch deprivation.

(Keen to register as a sex worker? Just go to the Profiles section of the site.) 

We have been busy campaigning for the continuing legality of the buying of sex. A C Grayling wrote about our campaign, “I thought your submission to the Home Office was brilliant and very moving: it’s inconceivable that it won’t have a great impact.”

Sadly, we lost the battle, and it is soon to become illegal to pay for sex with a trafficked sex worker. We have now ensured that all the sex workers on this site sign to assure us that they work of their own free will and are not trafficked. This means disabled visitors can feel safe to book them. Disabled people need this reassurance. if you are blind, you don't know if you are being followed by a cop; if you need to be pushed in your wheelchair by a PA, taking part in illegal acts would be breaking your contract with them. Many disabled people find it virtually impossible to be "naughty".

If the government was really concerned about protecting vulnerable people, they should have considered the number of vulnerable disabled people (disabled people make 10% of our population of which, say 5% need a sex worker) rather than falling for the false statistics on trafficking.

This site is run by volunteers who care that disabled people do not live their lives in frustration, and can grow and learn from sex workers in order to follow their sexual dreams. We also aim to encourage the use of sex workers as facilitators, enablers and educators. We are not equipped to enter individual correspondence,

We hope you enjoy the TLC site and that it works for you.