Dame Helen “I am a complete believer in legal brothels” Mirren

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Connecting disabled men & women to responsible sex workers, therapists, & teachers

Toby was bullied at public school. Having no sisters or friends, he had very little experience of girls. His penis failed to develop during adolescence and he has a micropenis. When he grew up, he became socially phobic and afraid of women. At the age of 35, he decided to lose his virginity with a sex worker. She spent time with him, telling him how nice looking he was and boosting his confidence. She encouraged him to go speed dating, where he met his current wife.
Sexual Freedom Coalition Response to the Home Office Consultation Paper on Prostitution (ignored by Home Office)

Dame Helen “I am a complete believer in legal brothels” Mirren

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Welcome to the TLC Trust

Welcome to what has been described as one of the most exciting developments in recent social history. TLC means, yes, Tender Loving Care, and that is what the TLC Trust is all about: helping professional sex workers and other service providers cater to the needs of the sexually dispossessed. 

Two stigmatized groups provide each other with triumph: sexually-deprived disabled people get laid, and sex workers gain a renewed pride in their work.

Marginalized by the government, by the Home Office, and by feminists and religious fundamentalists, sex workers not only bring joy into the world, but also rescue disabled people from personal anguish, sexual purgatory, and touch deprivation.

(Keen to register as a sex worker? Just go to the Profiles section of the site.) 

We have been busy campaigning for the continuing legality of the buying of sex. A C Grayling wrote about our campaign, “I thought your submission to the Home Office was brilliant and very moving: it’s inconceivable that it won’t have a great impact.”

Sadly, we lost the battle, and it has become illegal to pay for sex with a trafficked sex worker. We have now ensured that all the sex workers on this site sign to assure us that they work of their own free will and are not trafficked. This means disabled visitors can feel safe to book them. Disabled people need this reassurance. if you are blind, you don't know if you are being followed by a cop; if you need to be pushed in your wheelchair by a PA, taking part in illegal acts would be breaking your contract with them. Many disabled people find it virtually impossible to be "naughty".

If the government was really concerned about protecting vulnerable people, they should have considered the number of vulnerable disabled people (disabled people make 10% of our population of which, say 5% need a sex worker) rather than falling for the false statistics on trafficking.

This site is run by volunteers who care that disabled people do not live their lives in frustration, and can grow and learn from sex workers in order to follow their sexual dreams. We also aim to encourage the use of sex workers as facilitators, enablers and educators. We are not equipped to enter individual correspondence,

We hope you enjoy the TLC site and that it works for you.